The signature line on my emails indicates that I help women steal away time to pamper themselves, because so many of us are suffering from WTBS. That’s Way Too Busy Syndrome! I show respect for my prospects and clients by trying to accommodate their time constraints when I offer them their Try-Before-You-Buy, free Mary Kay facials.  I talk about being their BBF Consultant (Busy But Flexible) because I am very creative in getting hectic schedules to coincide.  Here are some examples:

A 7:00 AM Color Consultation so she showed up at the office modeling professional-looking makeup appropriate for the workplace.

An 8:30 PM Bedtime Beauty Bash when moms were finally able to relax and get  faces ready for bed after  homework/practices/dinner/bedtime routines were done.

A Color Consult on the sidelines while our girls were at soccer practice.

A skin care Handcial (rather than a Facial) in the bleachers at the football stadium while the marching band warmed up before the game.

By the way, I also do adhere to the practices suggested in the trigger… but I wanted to share some ways that are more unique to my Mary Kay business, and that support my claim that “I’m one of the best consultants I know!” 

If I think there's a problem, I call them.
I use the principle "Good news for eyes {email} Bad news for ears {phone}" so I can understand their nuance and get complete information.

I called Connie because I thought a potential Visitor might conflict with her. I called David when he was absent without a Sub for the first time in 28 years!  
Hard conversations are hard, and I do them anyway, to show the Member they are important, and I like them.

I show respect for my health coaching client's (and my) time by scheduling in "snow days" as a regular part of my coaching calendar with them.  We work for 3, 6, or even 12 months together and life can get very "life-y" no matter how well we plan for success.  I give one "snow day" per 3-months.

The "snow days" are added to the end of our calendar of appointments and can be invoked with no penalty during the time of our agreement....no rescheduling or frantic emails required.  If, however, a client misses more than their allotted "snow day" allowance, then any reschedules would be charged at $100 per occurrance.  Otherwise, they forfeit those extra days that they miss with me.

Time is a language and I use it to speak respect.

When a client or prospect shows up, I’m already ready. That means:

1. I send an agenda ahead of time, so we both know why we’re there.

2. I start and end on time every time.

3. I don’t multitask during sessions. They get my full attention, not my inbox.

4. And if I can’t give them that attention right away? I let it go to voicemail and call back when I can be fully present.

That’s how I honor the weight of their decision to work with me. Their time is already stretched. I don’t waste it. I multiply it.

I ensure to be a good steward of their time and mine, sticking to a 2-hour time limit on our first session and 1 hour for subsequent sessions.

When I'm not available, I let calls go to voicemail and return the call as soon as I can.

I send a summary of our session to remind them of what we covered, what homework was assigned, and expectations for the next session

My calendar has open times not only during the day, but I also have a couple of days a week open with evening slots as well as every other Saturday morning.

Here are a few ways I use my time to show respect to both prospects and clients:

1. I speak directly to the older adult—even when dementia is present. During discovery calls, I make eye contact and include them in the conversation. Talking about them in front of them, as if they’re not there, is never respectful.

2. I create a judgment-free space for every family. Discovery calls are open-ended and compassionate, no matter how complex or emotionally charged the situation. Even when I sense the adult child may have personal motives—like preserving inheritance or avoiding responsibility—I stay focused on what’s best for the older adult.

3. I honor the person living with dementia by embracing their reality. If their world includes memories or beliefs that aren’t accurate, I step into that world with them. Dignity sometimes means validating the fiction instead of correcting it.

4. I always advocate for the older adult’s voice. Even when adult children try to take over the decision-making process, I make sure the senior has agency in the process. Respect means honoring their preferences, not just the family’s convenience.

Trust is built off of mutual respect, and I start that process in our initial call by scheduling a time that works for us both, confirming the day before, and then showing up on time for every call and session. I respect my client's time and my own, so we rarely run over on sessions - only if a specific circumstance or question requires it. By structuring and delivering on time for all appointments, I can show my respect for their needs and goals, as well as their practical concerns and schedules.