As a social worker and coach, I’ve been helping women get to the root of what’s really driving the pattern—then make a grounded decision they can live with.
Cynthia first reached out to me about 15 years ago. When she came in, she said she felt disrespected, unappreciated, and small in her marriage. She wanted help deciding whether to stay or get divorced.
We used my Full Compass Decision-Making process so she could map her options in a wide, integrated way—mind clarity, heart truth, body wisdom, intuitive knowing—rather than trying to “think” her way through something that was also emotional and somatic.
She worked with me so she could make an integrated decision about her marriage and then change the pattern that made her feel small—so her next chapter would be built on self-respect,
She chose divorce.
Then the real work began: rebuilding her sense of self, strengthening her boundaries, and learning to respond differently so she wouldn’t recreate the same dynamic in future relationships.